Without stepping on too many toes, there are a lot of men that have turned out to be projects, not partners. During the years I unraveled and needed guidance, my therapist asked me why I even bothered with the father of my younger children, considering he had nothing going for him. We built up a…
Category: growth
Wonders Never Cease
Despite what it looks like, I am new to spreading my wings to gain new heights. Mostly because I prefer a slow pace. But I realized if I continue in one direction, as if nothing else matters, I’ll end up stuck. A lot in my birth chart suggests I am extremely mutable, but the way…
The Mother Wound
On your quest to rediscover who you are, you often, unfortunately uncover injuries from your upbringing that bring about terrible memories. While we talk about lack of love or abuse from fathers often, I think we don’t divulge enough on abusive mothers. First and foremost, despite how my mother was, I loved her. However, love…
🥀The Fray🥀 Surpasses 28k Reads!
Key points – • The Fray is a self published work • Most self published authors are lucky to have 250+ reads or purchases • JCS works alone, so the traction she has gained is astronomical • This is a Afro-Latina Dark Fantasy based series • This book has garnered a loyal gathering of readers,…
The Hustle to be Creative
As far as the eye can see – everyone is on social media “creating.” So when people say they wish they could create like me, they mean “I would like to use my gifs for servitude.” Because that’s exactly what you’re doing, especially when you’re going live and anything else associated with it. If you…
Positivity
We live in an our world littered by opinions. Do this, wear that, you’re this – you’re that. However, we seldomly hear kindness and truths. It’s hard being soft in a place that constantly demands you need to be harsh to survive. With that being said, I’d like to introduce you to Athul Kriprilani Ashok,…
Conversations
It’s not something you want to think about, but it surfaces. I was recalling the past and an epiphany came to me. The beginning of when my ex started becoming jealous is unclear, but it started to unravel in the middle of 2025. He started lying and acting unusual because he was forcing his hand…
Gently
“Violence is the answer,” he said, “men need to be killed to get the message.” It was someone’s opinion in raising the divine feminine. To kill men who hurt women and children. Using violence to abate violence creates a bigger problem. No one wants the soft and gentle approach because it isn’t outlandish. We’ve been…
Egirl, Goth, Alternative – the Differences
So it’s come to this – I just watched someone explain how they’re goth while applying egirl makeup. I can’t tell you how frustrating that is. I was with someone who constantly wanted me to be goth. He even labeled me the type of goth he felt I was, when I constantly told him I…
The Good You Do
I woke up needing to rewire myself. A hormonal shift is to blame. After doing a few chores, I started feeling better. And I lead with this thought – I have done more than enough. When am I going to stop beating myself up and start living in the moment (again)? Today, today is the…