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“Violence is the answer,” he said, “men need to be killed to get the message.”

It was someone’s opinion in raising the divine feminine. To kill men who hurt women and children. Using violence to abate violence creates a bigger problem.

No one wants the soft and gentle approach because it isn’t outlandish. We’ve been taught to roar when the quietest atrocities are committed without us knowing.

You can silently change the world – be changing your inner world. A lot of people believe the gentle approach is a mind game used to silence humanity. Yet, we never hear the creation of a new galaxy, or hear the shift of good emotions flowing through our body. There is silence in conception.

There is silence in growth.

I will continue being myself. Feminine, girly. Dolled up and seeming impossible and unapproachable. Because I quietly and gently healed myself. I do not announce when I want to be covered in flowers. I do not proclaim how many compliments I received in doing so.

The pinks, lilacs and florals that captivate my own senses do not need declarations. And the subtleties I choose bring me warmth and spread without announcement.

Women are showing their teeth – they are angry. But distilling fear in the hearts of men is exactly why men treat women the way they do…

Out of fear.

To continue on means our destruction. To shift from these moments, into the quiet of understanding and awareness will save us all.