We weren’t going to make it – my ex and I. Why are you bringing this up? I was working on – and still am, understanding that what I’ve done and the results of it are more than enough. Particularly because it is toxic to do otherwise. It hit me this morning, as I went…
Tag: self made
More Support
There are some touchy topics I’m going to cover here, but they are all truths. I long abandoned the “read for read” group antics of other writers because I was out of place. I’ve had many writers, especially white women, confront me for no reason other than fear. While I am prolific, imagine 20 year…
These Boys(Ain’t Cute Enough) Surpasses 1 Million Views!
How. When. What. Where. Why. All questions I’m asking myself. How did I not notice my song reached so many? I was keeping tracking of listens on Spotify and somehow missed my song creeping up in views on Instagram. Dude. One million views is a lot 😳 I have to keep tracking of everything myself,…
As A Woman
My mother would say, “you’ll have a hard time finding someone. You’ve accomplished so much.” I have no desire to date a man doing less than me. And furthermore, who has less. It has been brought to my attention enough to know that when a man is lacking and not reaching his potential, he will…
Right in Front of Me
Took me long enough… Ah, yes. The age old conversation I have with others about what I do, and how many followers I have that ALWAYS pops up. The first thing people say is- “Oh wow, you’re famous.” Especially men. That bit is annoying…I’m not a trophy. If you couldn’t tell from the tone of…
The Ick
Every single person attached to my ex did the same thing just about – orbited into my atmosphere, compared, competed. And lost. He has a gathering of pick me women. I was in the wrong place. Someone recently asked why I produced and wrote These Boys(Ain’t Cute Enough) and here’s why – “He was jealous…
Dear Self Made
Briefly mentioned in an earlier post – doing for yourself when it comes to your art is important. What I feel a lot are hoping for is a miracle or a break. What I’ve learned is I have to pour into my craft with my time and my money…and hope for the best. It can…
Updates – Music
This just in – These Boys (Ain’t Cute Enough) has surpassed 300k views, and I’m hoping to reach 500k before this week ends! On top of that, Ultra is nearing 100k views on Instagram as well, and I am quite happy about this! In the end, it all adds up, but right now things are…
New Achievment Unlocked
This is exciting and fun! I started a channel on my Facebook page and thought nothing of it, and now it has 100 members! It’s been helpful without me reiterating information or sharing posts over again! And, it lets me know who’s paying attention as well. Not everyone will see you (or care) so having…
