The Leap

I had to type out a pitch on the spot. If The Fray hadn’t already become substantial – and if my follower count was low… There would be no animated series. We’re talking about this today because I keep coming across people who put themselves up against me. First and foremost – what I do…

There Was a Shift

Yesterday, I was hoping views would go over 100 by next Monday on ABY’s website – I woke up to 130. The Fray is outperforming other creators on TikTok with the same follower count as me. And, it’s closing in on 29k reads for my website. The Fray has taken over. This is incredible –…

Reaching My Goals

I have been through a lot, which is an understatement. I won’t go on a tangent! But life after the obstacles that once thwarted my every and are now removed is…magical. Understand that I realize more obstacles can come my way – I speak of overcoming generational trauma and karmic relationships. Since the beginning of…

Reaching Millions

The Costs, the Point, the Rewards Being self made means you work on solutions to get your content seen. It requires trial and error, patience and perseverance. I don’t do this to compete…it is for the love of all that I do. Now I get to assess what’s been done! Did my ads work? What…

The Hustle to be Creative

As far as the eye can see – everyone is on social media “creating.” So when people say they wish they could create like me, they mean “I would like to use my gifs for servitude.” Because that’s exactly what you’re doing, especially when you’re going live and anything else associated with it. If you…

It Wouldn’t Have Been Enough

We weren’t going to make it – my ex and I. Why are you bringing this up? I was working on – and still am, understanding that what I’ve done and the results of it are more than enough. Particularly because it is toxic to do otherwise. It hit me this morning, as I went…

More Support

There are some touchy topics I’m going to cover here, but they are all truths. I long abandoned the “read for read” group antics of other writers because I was out of place. I’ve had many writers, especially white women, confront me for no reason other than fear. While I am prolific, imagine 20 year…

These Boys(Ain’t Cute Enough) Surpasses 1 Million Views!

How. When. What. Where. Why. All questions I’m asking myself. How did I not notice my song reached so many? I was keeping tracking of listens on Spotify and somehow missed my song creeping up in views on Instagram. Dude. One million views is a lot 😳 I have to keep tracking of everything myself,…

Your Own

I am reminded again how much control others have over the masses. I posted a video of the washer I own, and it received 11k views. This isn’t a brag – I enjoy having a washer and dryer in my unit. Both appliances work exceptionally well, and I also have a drying rack as well….

As A Woman

My mother would say, “you’ll have a hard time finding someone. You’ve accomplished so much.” I have no desire to date a man doing less than me. And furthermore, who has less. It has been brought to my attention enough to know that when a man is lacking and not reaching his potential, he will…