I didn’t capitalize Blacks and I don’t think it would have made a difference – “What race do I identify as? Well – a large number of African Americans know I’m mixed but they’re never sure with what. White people never know either 😂 Latin Americans? Automatically. 🤣 I am Afro-Mexicana. My biggest issue is…
Category: understanding
Realization
I could not think or breathe. I was tired, stressed…feeling like I needed to be at attention at all times. It wasn’t allergic reactions or lack of rest. It was my ex. I was always on edge. Because of him. Three phone calls a day. Texting all day long. Was I about to escape? Well,…
It All Circles Back to Comprehension
Or in this instance, the lack of. This is an observation – the many conversations held between groups of people, and how they almost always break down in context because people have a hard time understanding unbiased points. I’m choosing a neutral term because that is the space I take up. For example – men…
The Hustle to be Creative
As far as the eye can see – everyone is on social media “creating.” So when people say they wish they could create like me, they mean “I would like to use my gifs for servitude.” Because that’s exactly what you’re doing, especially when you’re going live and anything else associated with it. If you…
Positivity
We live in an our world littered by opinions. Do this, wear that, you’re this – you’re that. However, we seldomly hear kindness and truths. It’s hard being soft in a place that constantly demands you need to be harsh to survive. With that being said, I’d like to introduce you to Athul Kriprilani Ashok,…
Conversations
It’s not something you want to think about, but it surfaces. I was recalling the past and an epiphany came to me. The beginning of when my ex started becoming jealous is unclear, but it started to unravel in the middle of 2025. He started lying and acting unusual because he was forcing his hand…
Working Smarter
Not Harder People will always question what you do, but if a method you follow works – stick with it. Creating content is difficult, being that it can be stressful. Oftentimes, it is hard gaining organic views because people simply just don’t care – no matter how great your concepts are. I have learned that…
Gently
“Violence is the answer,” he said, “men need to be killed to get the message.” It was someone’s opinion in raising the divine feminine. To kill men who hurt women and children. Using violence to abate violence creates a bigger problem. No one wants the soft and gentle approach because it isn’t outlandish. We’ve been…
Egirl, Goth, Alternative – the Differences
So it’s come to this – I just watched someone explain how they’re goth while applying egirl makeup. I can’t tell you how frustrating that is. I was with someone who constantly wanted me to be goth. He even labeled me the type of goth he felt I was, when I constantly told him I…
Inward
This has been the topic of conversation since last night – and one of my mutual followers mentioned something worth repeating this morning. Before I share screenshots of the post – let’s talk about getting in our own way. The person who commented is a lifestyle coach. It’s literally his job to help people help…