Sometimes…ego shows up as madness, disguised as constriction. The squeeze, the breathlessness…the attempts to quiet you. Ever so elegantly and politely. That is far more dangerous than any out of control fire. By the time you realize it’s happening… It could be too late. I speak of my own self detriment. My own need to…
Category: truth
True Love
What’s the weirdest coincidence you’ve ever experienced? Late spring of 2025, my personal Facebook page (switched to business) started getting reported. This was around the same time I received my third magazine interview – and I was nominated for a prestigious award. My ex addressed concern for my page being reported. He seemed upset, but…
Backwards
What’s the point of being a heavy hitter on Instagram, view wise… If no one is streaming your work or reading it elsewhere? Let’s be vague about this. But since Instagram has been around, a lot of people crave getting attention. Except this time, I’ve noticed it starts and stops at Instagram. My goal was…
Brain Rot
“What you’re witnessing is the truth being revealed. Content creators are admitting they don’t get paid. Everyone is sick of influencers. Large corporations days are numbered. And somehow a very large percentage of people are still trying to get famous from one video or one brand deal. If you didn’t create what you do from…
Scrambling
Being self made means people believe they have access to you and your resources. They don’t. All aspects of The Fray and other works coming will be handled by Aby One, which cuts out a lot of extra foot work. While I’m a fan of the enthusiasm this person was showing, I’ve also fallen victim…
More Than Ever
In 2022-2023, the actors guild went on strike. It was the longest strike in the history of the entertainment industry – all actors big and small were included. We found out (some of us already knew) most actors were BROKE. Which is hilarious, because we were taught to believe they were rich. During the same…
Elsewhere
“Please stop using words we can’t understand.” A random reader said this. Chances are, they were American. When I set out to push The Fray, I looked overseas. There are so many other countries where people are willing to read. They actually want to read your work. They share, comment, like – ask questions. Visit…
Saturn’s Return
I looked into my birth charts to better understand a few things. It’s like a road map to my life, and I’ve missed certain bits this entire time. There, in the seventh house sits Saturn. Of all fucking planets. With Sagittarius. Which means only one thing. Sagittarius connections will be karmic. My ex was a…
A Busy Street
People are going to meet you where they are mentally, because they know nothing else. Unless they have taken strides to change their patterned behavior, they will present their lowest form to your highest form – and assume you’re the bad guy. The deflection, crude behavior, and insults are a defense mechanism coming from someone…