What’s something you used to worry about but don’t anymore? Let’s be honest – a lot of us post to get views. Be it social media or your website. I used to worry myself sick about reaching the right audience…and keeping their attention. Having gone through the trials I have, and coming out on the…
Category: awareness
And There I Was…
Hot. Covered in lace and taffeta. Stunning, someone said. I was wearing four inch platform white boots, a spiked crown tiara, and a chip on my shoulder. Colfax isn’t a fun street, but the Basilica is so beautiful…we had to do a shoot there. The photographer arrived a little late, she parked too far away,…
In My Own Hands
We tend to forget about our magic. Maybe something catastrophic happened, and we couldn’t take time for ourselves to even consider it anymore. Toxic relationships have a way of blinding us from our abilities. Truly, our worst enemies is typically ourselves. So, what happens when you unlock something in you? Or is it remembering what…
To Stall
Someone keeps trying to sign into my Facebook. Bless their heart. I receive the notification, and to my greatest delight, they are unable to. I imagine this is also the same person who was mimicking my blogging account in recent weeks. Still trying to figure out the point you’re proving… I believe another episode (or…
Met My Match
My fingers idle momentarily, and during my pause I fight with myself. Perhaps I made a mistake? Block. I do what most women do and suggest it needed to be done. He won’t care or notice. Right? An hour goes by and I check my phone… Oh shit… He’s gone to my website…guilt sinks in….
🥀The Fray Surpasses 130k views!🥀
You know, I kept wondering why I couldn’t access Facebook for my automatic posts. Turns out someone slipped through the ether, and managed to disable that. Somehow. Today, my likeness was used to comment on a post for a blogger I don’t follow. She, of course, commented back. Here’s where it gets stupid – the…
Meta’s Takedown
We’re talking about this again – and here’s why. For years, many other creators have wondered how people were getting paid, getting views, and beating the system. While everyone who lost a page is complaining, no one is telling you that their pages were removed due to bots used from other companies to drive in…
Grapefruit
What do you love now, that you hated when you were younger? “Try this,” my mother said, pushing a bowl of sliced fruit in front of me, “it’s good for you.” Is it? Nine year old me stared at the grapefruit sliced in half on my plate. The absolute nerve of her, dusting it with…
A Busy Street
People are going to meet you where they are mentally, because they know nothing else. Unless they have taken strides to change their patterned behavior, they will present their lowest form to your highest form – and assume you’re the bad guy. The deflection, crude behavior, and insults are a defense mechanism coming from someone…
To Click the Link
My favorite thing…is when someone likes the link for my posts. But they never click to read them 🤭 It doesn’t upset me, it’s funny. The human race runs off of surface appearances. What it looks like rather than what it feels like. To that I say – it isn’t support. Yet, I am aware…