The more you think you can’t, the more you won’t.
Entering friendships and relationships to obtain something other than genuine love…makes you a loser.
I guess I can say it gentler, but it’s true.
A lot of individuals seek connections to grow their career or bank account. To say who they know. To use the person until their last breath.
To be honest, I’ve never seen that work. We see it in movies and shows, but we’re not facing the reality behind it. In order for people like that to function – they have to use A LOT of people.
Eventually, someone catches on and kind of marks you. Now you’re a liability and it shows everywhere you go. That isn’t the easier route, either. Coming up with ploys to use people takes more energy than not doing so.
Is it that hard to not use someone? Asking for myself.
It is so rewarding doing your own thing and succeeding at that, especially when it’s something you’ve worked hard on. There’s no greater feeling.