Why Would I Ever?

I’m not going to tiptoe around this topic. If it makes you uncomfortable – good. For starters – a lot of men constantly hope they have a chance with me, romantically. I started to notice this years ago, but I feel now is the perfect time to say something. Being that I am Afro-Latina…men seem…

Don’t Believe The Hype

You’ve read correctly. Have you always wondered how influencers and people with millions of followers got there? Running ads through companies who offer packages. For example, twenty dollars for one hundred followers and so on. Some of those companies choose any profile – even spam profiles. So the seams of the veil have been completely…

Conversations

It’s not something you want to think about, but it surfaces. I was recalling the past and an epiphany came to me. The beginning of when my ex started becoming jealous is unclear, but it started to unravel in the middle of 2025. He started lying and acting unusual because he was forcing his hand…

It Wouldn’t Have Been Enough

We weren’t going to make it – my ex and I. Why are you bringing this up? I was working on – and still am, understanding that what I’ve done and the results of it are more than enough. Particularly because it is toxic to do otherwise. It hit me this morning, as I went…

The Good You Do

I woke up needing to rewire myself. A hormonal shift is to blame. After doing a few chores, I started feeling better. And I lead with this thought – I have done more than enough. When am I going to stop beating myself up and start living in the moment (again)? Today, today is the…

Black Fae Day

According to the group I’m in – the creator of Black Fae Day says it’s May 9th! I will be taking as many pictures as possible – of any and all things including cosplay and anything I own. I’m looking forward to it because I managed to stay in a group – connect and ignore…

More Support

There are some touchy topics I’m going to cover here, but they are all truths. I long abandoned the “read for read” group antics of other writers because I was out of place. I’ve had many writers, especially white women, confront me for no reason other than fear. While I am prolific, imagine 20 year…

Inward

This has been the topic of conversation since last night – and one of my mutual followers mentioned something worth repeating this morning. Before I share screenshots of the post – let’s talk about getting in our own way. The person who commented is a lifestyle coach. It’s literally his job to help people help…

Uranus in Your Bones

The solar system is theoretically thought to be a system without a system. It is the structure of a divine being, and we are all connected. Bone pain. At random, too. My legs ache and I’m tired. But the new timeline shift has occurred and it does come with its mild issues. Whenever we shift,…

From Afar

My lips twist into a poised smile – it’s crooked. The right side lifts a little higher than the left. I seem smug, or like I have a secret. Maybe I do. It’s as delicious as it is…crazy. I’m here for each minute of it. To some, this would be slow and daunting. But I’d…