The more you think you can’t, the more you won’t. Entering friendships and relationships to obtain something other than genuine love…makes you a loser. I guess I can say it gentler, but it’s true. A lot of individuals seek connections to grow their career or bank account. To say who they know. To use the…
Category: self love
Exquisite As Such
I do not replace my phone for the newest model. I buy items they will last – silver, gold, genuine leather, silks, furs and cotton. Sometimes linen. I polish shoes, fix holes. I do my own hair and nails. I know the value in myself without all of those things. I define luxury in my…
Dusty
Venus is exalted in my charts, in the place it should be. Venus in Pisces means it’s exalted. So my love for fashion, beautiful things and always needing to doll up is an expression of that. I am once again complaining about how dusty everyone is. I’m not saying you should be just like me….
Why Would I Ever?
I’m not going to tiptoe around this topic. If it makes you uncomfortable – good. For starters – a lot of men constantly hope they have a chance with me, romantically. I started to notice this years ago, but I feel now is the perfect time to say something. Being that I am Afro-Latina…men seem…
Positivity
We live in an our world littered by opinions. Do this, wear that, you’re this – you’re that. However, we seldomly hear kindness and truths. It’s hard being soft in a place that constantly demands you need to be harsh to survive. With that being said, I’d like to introduce you to Athul Kriprilani Ashok,…
At the Helm
You are the captain of your own ship. It’s hard to hear, even harder to grasp for some. I have steered my mighty vessel through shark infested waters. I’ve almost lost my way when I heard the gentle serenades of sirens. Many storms, my ship has gone through. All times, pieces of my work chipped…
🥀The Fray🥀 is sitting at 22k Reads!
I actually slowed a bit to focus on other projects, but The Fray is still growing and I am so proud! Over complicating situations is the theme of today’s blog. It occurred to me that while I love glitz and glam, human interactions are less of an indulgence for me. If we can’t stick to…
On the Verge
I used to live on a little island, in my mind. You see, I isolated myself from the world so I can work on myself. I took up space on my unknown plot of land for about a six years or so, then I decided to move. City lights aren’t as bright, loud noises aren’t…
Self Love – DIY
Self love may be shopping…or reminding yourself that you matter. Waiting for someone else to do it is silly, actually. You can lead a life waiting on the morals of others – or do it yourself ♥️ We don’t talk about that part enough. Instead, other judge people committing to self love. “Shopping isn’t self…