Needing Something Else

What’s a common misconception people have about happiness? Happiness can be obtained through so many routes, thinking you can feel it with another or a material item is a mistake. It means you depend on others and or cast blame when you are unhappy. While being a mother or a wife can come with said…

Take Your Time

What is something you wish you could tell your 20-year-old self? As I have gotten older, I’ve slowed down quite a bit. I was raised to “hurry up and get it done,” and honestly, why? So I did. All of my days – rush here and rush there. I wish I would have taken in…

Quality Over Quantity

What quality do you value most in a friend? As I’ve gotten older – I value outright honesty and integrity. I had a bout with someone recently because they lied – they kept suggesting we’d be friends. I can’t make out their entire motive, but they were trying to attach themselves to me. When I…

Foundational Imagination

This is a great question, because I think experiences in life etch your confidence out of you. Children are a great example of confidence, even given their environments. We seem to think a kid can be delusional – pretending to be a knight or a princess. But they believe so deeply that they are, and…

Reaching My Goals

I have been through a lot, which is an understatement. I won’t go on a tangent! But life after the obstacles that once thwarted my every and are now removed is…magical. Understand that I realize more obstacles can come my way – I speak of overcoming generational trauma and karmic relationships. Since the beginning of…

It Seems You Like Projects

Without stepping on too many toes, there are a lot of men that have turned out to be projects, not partners. During the years I unraveled and needed guidance, my therapist asked me why I even bothered with the father of my younger children, considering he had nothing going for him. We built up a…

Stability

I used to want all the riches in the world – but nothing is in comparison to having a foundation, security, love and peace. While I write and create almost daily, a sense of security is what I would describe as my ideal life. A man can have all the riches in the world and…

Unsure – Yet Delighted!

You get some great, amazingly fantastic news. What’s the first thing you do? Normally, I would tell a good friend. I have one new friend I can tell, as people who I thought were being kind had ulterior motives…are now removed. I’d also blog about it! I’m self made and I like to encourage others….

Sometimes…

Do you spend more time thinking about the future or the past? Why? On occasion, I do wander into the past. In the last five years, I view that differently. Instead of painful reminders, I forgive and let go. It has lightened my heart in more ways than one. As for the future, it is…

🥀The Fray – Pre-Order!🥀

The time is finally here! Currently, hardcover and ebook are the available versions of The Fray, with pre-order sales now open. I am very excited about this, and will continue updating everyone as we go along! 🥀The Fray – Preorder Link🥀 If you’ve read any of the previews, kindly leave a preview as this can…