Saturn’s Return

I looked into my birth charts to better understand a few things. It’s like a road map to my life, and I’ve missed certain bits this entire time. There, in the seventh house sits Saturn. Of all fucking planets. With Sagittarius. Which means only one thing. Sagittarius connections will be karmic. My ex was a…

It Seems You Like Projects

Without stepping on too many toes, there are a lot of men that have turned out to be projects, not partners. During the years I unraveled and needed guidance, my therapist asked me why I even bothered with the father of my younger children, considering he had nothing going for him. We built up a…

Why Would I Ever?

I’m not going to tiptoe around this topic. If it makes you uncomfortable – good. For starters – a lot of men constantly hope they have a chance with me, romantically. I started to notice this years ago, but I feel now is the perfect time to say something. Being that I am Afro-Latina…men seem…

The Mistake I Won’t Make Again

While the internet has become a vital tool, there are some aspects that I’d rather avoid at all costs – that of connections via my phone or computer. It is already difficult navigating life, dating apps and internet interactions have those who are generally meek acting bolder online because they’re hiding behind a screen. It…