As far as the eye can see, everyone almost everywhere has a problem with everything.
I said this a few years ago and I stand by it.
First – the race wars. Can you not tell you’re being pitted against each other, as you both starve to death, think you’re right?
I won’t condone racism from anyone – or prejudice from my own people. I don’t think we understand what’s happened. Someone joked about white people being slaves – NO. Absolutely not. Repeating history is not the answer.
White people did this. White people did that. Letting it go, forgiving and finding people who care would help so much. No, not every white person is going to like you. But combative behavior attracts combative behavior.
I have never experienced the extremes others have – except from my own people. And even then…you don’t know what someone is going through. You have to let it go.
Then, there’s the class wars. Don’t you understand misery is a currency? Every time you complain, instead of uplifting yourself…you are paying a toll. It’s wasted energy – and that is the goal. Your energy. No, money doesn’t really matter.
And if you know that…toppling billionaires and becoming rich yourself won’t fix the issue – it will create MORE MONSTERS. Because we all crave power to be ahead of someone.
Contentment – learning how to care for yourself. Understanding yourself. Understanding others…is how you make things topple. If you dig a hole to bury someone, you too may end up in that hole.
The sex wars. Men are this, men are that.
Every single one of them? What if someone is working on themselves?
He better message me first! How is he to know you like him, if he’s damned if he does and damned if he doesn’t!
He better have it together, I’m not taking care of a baby!
I watched a friend of mine max out tens of thousands of dollars in credit for brows, and lashes.
Everyone needs to heal and approach this differently. Because there are angry and resentful women. If we don’t handle this correctly – finding out truths and understanding why patriarchy is bad…we’ll end up where we started.
Not every man is bad. And not every woman deserves to be called a goddess.
The fighting, the rage bait. The need to drag someone through social media to feel something.
All of it is happening online, too. You feel powerful behind the latest iPhone you probably got on credit.
I want to see proactive change – within ourselves first. You can’t teach anyone anything if you don’t know anything yourself. The yelling, the name calling, the demands. Because that always worked.
You’re capable of getting a job and taking care of yourself – if you don’t need a man…then don’t drag an entire sex down because someone betrayed you. See it for the person. Know that others can do harm – work on healing. And understand not every man is a bad person.
A lot. Yes. But what if all the bad men you speak of WANT THE STAGE YOU KEEP PUTTING THEM ON.
People who do outlandish and horrendous things do it for attention! Isn’t that insane! So yes, let’s broadcast the insanity further, that will teach them!
It doesn’t. It never has.
When we all work on ourselves, forgiving, letting go, all of it…it causes a ripple across time, across continents.
Across hearts and minds.
War only burns things to the ground. Use your anger to angrily work on yourself and aggressively let things go. Your signs, your marching,…your jokes and need for attention are proliferating issues.
But that’s what you wanted, right?
No. All of it is wrong. It seems death is the best way to fix the issue, honestly. Ending all pedophiles and rapists with a quick drop…
It spreads a message. It causes fear. The fear we experienced being women. All I see are flames, ash and no resolution. Just someone else on top, saying I told you so.
It’s come to this. It seems no one believes therapy, or understanding will work. Just get rid of them. It teaches young boys that if someone touches them…and they touch someone inappropriately…they can die.
And that’s pretty much it.
A woman run world would be just as bad. Especially if a woman hasn’t worked on herself. I don’t think anyone needs to be in power – male or female. You’re all insane.
Harmony means ideas, solutions and progress are shared and understood. No superior sexes. No superior race. No superior class.
But we can’t get past what someone did to us. And I speak as a woman of color, who’s been raped, molested…and used for money. I’d be considered poor if I didn’t have an estate to my name.
I have no desire to fight because we’ll all end up bloody and back where we started.
The solution…
Is love.