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I have never been a fan of infidelity. It’s happened to me. I remember giving excuses to their poor behavior, too.

I also don’t condone infidelity for financial gain. Bamboozling men or women to pay rent isn’t necessary – you made it necessary. That type of behavior will never fill that void of inadequacies you pretend don’t exist.

Taking accountability for our wrong doings is key to freedom. Looking at everything you do and understanding parts of yourself that you consider dark help you grow into a better version of yourself.

Furthermore, not putting ourselves in precarious situations in which we need constant saving is a great start. When you chase after lust – be it physical, financial or material desire…you will always end up with less than what you started with.

If you are unhappy, leave…don’t cheat. You’re creating a bigger mess. I do not understand why people think it’s okay to cheat when they’re either being cheated on or they’re unhappy.

I don’t condone this behavior and do not support people who have ulterior motives – male or female. I’ve been told I’m cold for cutting people off, but if someone is betraying themselves and me…why stick around? Life is better without all of the unnecessary bullshit that goes down anyway.

Don’t you like an empty bed?

I’m not into the warm bodies concept. I date with intent because I can’t help but to love. If my love is taken for granted, I leave.

You really have to consider life to be extremely unfortunate to fake love just for the comfort of a home or designer sunglasses.

Or someone’s soul.