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Self love may be shopping…or reminding yourself that you matter. Waiting for someone else to do it is silly, actually. You can lead a life waiting on the morals of others – or do it yourself ♥️

We don’t talk about that part enough.

Instead, other judge people committing to self love. “Shopping isn’t self love.” That statement proves it is…you’re busy judging someone who is trying to heal. Healing will be different for everyone. It could be reading, rehab, therapy, prayer, or learning to cook.

Negative statements about self love habits is exactly why the person was led to do them in the first place!

Have graciousness for yourself as well. And maybe take some pointers…?