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There is never a reason to use how someone dresses against them, but people do.

I have learned that people will treat you a certain way depending on how you dress – it’s better you dress for yourself.

People often project their insecurities in areas they need to work on, but everyone’s favorite target is how a woman dresses. I’m not sure when men and other women decided this was okay, considering most everyone has a fragile ego, but it’s absolute nonsense.

If a woman shows some skin, she’s considered promiscuous. If she likes to look nice, she’s either stuck up or glamorous. And if she doesn’t do either of these things…it’s considered lazy or modest.

I think everyone should shut up. Life is too beautiful to worry about how someone else is dressed. It’s actually extremely stupid and shows how far humanity has to go, in terms of spiritual maturity.

Controlling how someone feels means the person doing so feels either chaotic or powerless. But picking on women and girls growing up and developing means you seek to destroy.

Molding someone how you see fit is insane…work on yourself. Trying to control what everyone woman on this planet does means you have no care for your mother or sisters as well.

If women felt safe, there’d be a greater appreciation all around. Most of us dress a certain way as protection. And as an example, I do feel safe but I will always dress how I feel.

When a woman shows a lot of skin, she’s wielding her power. When she’s ultra feminine…she’s wielding her power. When she’s modest…she’s wielding her power. How you feel about a woman doesn’t change how powerful she is, you just found something to control her with.

If the world went without women for a day, it would implode. So maybe…stop making everything about how you feel, and start considering that your projections are your need for healing…and not someone else’s responsibility.