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You cannot relay messages now, without people taking them way out of context. It’s easier to spot when anemone really needs help, more than you realize.

We find peace in our own ways. Happiness comes to us in different routes. Contentment ushers itself in with different dynamics for everyone.

Being easily triggered has two causes –

Not wanting to try.

Pretending the pain doesn’t hurt.

In most cases, both exist. Better to be honest about it. I couldn’t give that type of advice without having experienced it first hand. The less judgmental, the wiser the messenger.

We create patterns to survive, and within them, we trap ourselves in a spiral. It is much easier to blame others for our shortcomings, than it is to admit wholeheartedly, that we were wrong.

If you cut your finger, you can blame the cutlery company for making your utensil too sharp…but it’s not as if the salesman or CEO were holding the knife with you.

That type of perspective is draining.

A clear mind doesn’t look for anyone to blame, rather, wants to soak up the rays of the sun without a negative thought in mind. Does that sound magical?

In a sense, it is. The beauty of perspective is that it can be both dark or light. It’s really up for you to decide. And because of our ability to make choices…your unhappy stems from your choices.