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When a butterfly emerges from its chrysalis, it takes hours to pump blood into its wings so it can fly. However, this is necessary, and not forced. It flows.

Allow things to flow to you. No matter the outcome. Because if at any point in time, you’re shoving a situation to fit, it could fall apart, or simply not give at all.

It’s really hard to do, so I say this with kindness. Anxiety can rule fruitfulness, and what could be a blessing falls to pieces within seconds when you believe forcing things is the better solution. Sometimes, we miss out or don’t understand because we’re trying way too hard.

The other thing is contentment. It goes such a long way. It’s carried me when I didn’t realize, and it filled me with gratitude. The Universe rewards gratitude. Seeing what you have and being fulfilled is everything, it really is.

Also understand that maybe things aren’t meant for you at this time – there is still a lesson you have to learn. Lessons guide us, directing us to the mistake we continue to make. At some point, you know you’re messing up!

Time is irrelevant.

Stop timing when something should happen and go with the flow. Life would be a lot less stressful when you adopt the attitude that it’s okay. If you rush, you can mess up and need to start again! Who wants to do that? So breathe, and take your time.

You have nothing but time anyway.