List the people you admire and look to for advice…

There were two individuals who I always sought advice for, and found comfort as well.

The first is my Aunt Pat. She’s 74 and has out lived all of her siblings, including my grandmother. You can see why I always turn to her.

She would offer advice only if I asked. So she respected that I was an adult, during the times I asked the most. She is caring, loving and nonjudgmental…making her advice more sound.

The only other person I went to advice for often is my late Grandpa Bobby, who passed nearly years ago. His death has not been hard on me, because I don’t look at death the way others do. I am glad he is no longer suffering.

At any rate, he too gave the best advice, without judgment, full of love and understanding. He helped me see different view points, and never held anything against me.

I’m still learning, but we take examples for others constantly. I’ve listed two people I wholeheartedly trust(ed).