I had originally realized the folly a month before making my decision. The landscape had changed. To be certain, we discussed what was unfolding, and he agreed he had messed up. My concern was his patterned behavior, and his seemingly lack of care for the situation. So, I began to launch my attack, blocking him…
Tag: change
And Breathe
Taking time for myself is going to be more beneficial than I realize. I am already a mother – I need a break! This morning, I scrolled through Tibetan sheepskin handbags. I want one, for myself. Not to impress anyone, I love the texture of the wool. I’m going to take a walk today with…
Just Like That
My plaque is centered in our living room, for visitors to see. I originally didn’t want it, but it is a major accomplishment. My mother, despite our many differences, is proud of me. She gets wrapped up in the past, and will not change. But she at least said she’s proud. If you’re self made…
🥀The Fray – Final Draft Finished!🥀
You read correctly! After nearly a year and a half, The Fray is ready to be formatted and published! I have a lot going on. The set publishing date is November 20th, 2025. This can be moved up to January 2025, if need be. The Fray centers around Miguel and Nia Cervantez, who are newly…
Uplifted
A lot of what I witness now happens for two reasons – people do not change, and they hope you haven’t. My ex said this perfectly last night, and I couldn’t agree more, “people love their bullshit.” When you are unaware, haven’t healed and have no idea what’s going on, everything triggers you. People can…
Progress – Day by Day
I saw someone say not to talk about your accomplishments, and I beg to differ. When someone sees that you can achieve something, it helps them realize they can as well. If we all acted like there’s a secret code or recipe, it makes us look like we don’t want anyone else succeeding. I have…
Sustaining Effort
People don’t like hearing great things take time. Yet, anytime I’ve rushed anything, it simply never worked. While forcing anything also fails you, building over time is way more sustainable. Establishing yourself and remaining consistent are key. I’ve come to realize that no matter how much I say this, it falls on deaf ears. I…
What Works
The short answer is consistency and dedication. The long answer is possibly unraveling for some. I would say you first need to stick with a plan, and execute the plan often. It will take your a good two to three years to see some type of results, but you’ll realize it’s something that needs constant…
Stars in My Eyes
When it comes to my work, I always do my best. Writing reviews sounds easy, but companies and business look for key points that help drive sales. Sometimes, my reviews are not accepted, which is very rarely. Other times, they are showcased on the business page for all to see – and that makes me…
Jealousy is a Disease
Right as I was celebrating my good fortune, someone let their true colors show. Let me explain this as clearly as possible. I changed my Facebook page to professional mode. I only have 32 friends. I obtained about 390 followers during the time I made that decision. 110 more would make me eligible for monetizing…
The Heiress JCS 