Are you a good judge of character? When I was younger, probably due to abuse, no, I was not. I felt because I had been hurt, how could I cast down others? I paid deeply for that thinking, people continuously abused my kindness and pretended they did nothing wrong. Now, even the slightest off behavior,…
Category: understanding
No Chances Left
In early 2023, recording artist and MMA fighter Seckond Chance approached THÄ LØBÖ, asking him to record vocals for an upcoming song. THÄ LØBÖ did so immediately, sent the samples off and waited holding his breath. The conversation was, that Seckond Chance would also feature the up and coming artist in his music video, which…
Integrity
What is something others do that sparks your admiration? I learned the word when I was 12, and hardly saw it demonstrated. People would prefer to be unscrupulous, always scheming to get their way, instead of doing the right thing. I call it the grey area…the void where people assume a little good and bad…
“Bad Ass”
What’s the first impression you want to give people? The first thing most people say is that I, “don’t play around.” “You’re so real!” “You’re such a bad ass.” I am protecting my peace. I am making sure everyone understands I will not hesitate to eject them from my life. I do not present unscrupulous…
Halfway Done Isn’t Done At All
What part of your routine do you always try to skip if you can? Whether my routine is meticulous or insane is yet to be decided, I do not skip steps because I hate having to go back and fix something. It’s not me reaching for perfection, but rather if it isn’t done entirely, it’s…
Furry Companions
What is good about having a pet? Having a pet is quite the experience, one you probably won’t regret. Animals have feelings, and showcase them just like humans. I feel that pets/animals are vulnerable because they are dumb (meaning, they cannot speak) and they are aware of this. While humans try hiding their vulnerabilities, animals…
I Would Do it Again
The way I was raised, was to obtain material items by buying outright, and never leasing or renting. I am a firm believer in that, to this day. It grew into buying leather shoes and handbags, precious metals…and fur/crystals (specifically Swarovski Crystals). I spent over $4000 in fur and accessories one year. And it wasn’t…
Science, Please
What was your favorite subject in school? My all time favorite subject was science. It never explained any of its theories, and I enjoyed pondering about that. Topics that made sense – isotopes, nuclear energy, dispersion after either a leak or bombing, and scientific methods, with me completely hating math yet excelling in this area….
Self Respect is Lacking
What’s something you believe everyone should know. I’d venture to say self respect, which doesn’t always include pearl necklaces and mid length dresses. Can you say no, and walk away from someone who isn’t good for you? Don’t confuse self awareness with this topic either, because while being comfortable in your skin is important, it…
Taking My Power Back
The sun has not quite risen yet, and the sounds I play at night are still droning on. It’s dark, quiet. I love it this way. Soon, I’ll ascend from my bed, drink coffee and begin my day. Laundry is on the schedule, and I also have to bake cookies. I couldn’t do this about…
