What advice would you give to your teenage self? For certain, I would tell her that all the terrible things people told us about ourselves were to stop us from being great. That no one deserves your kind of love. And that dressing how you want doesn’t need others opinions – especially with how unhappy…
Category: Healing
Not Willing to Try
What bores you? People with no initiative. Individuals who would rather compare themselves to someone else…rather than get up and try. It’s boring because it’s one dimensional behavior. The context of conversations are always pity parties, or love bombing (HUGE red flag.) Telling me what I do is incomprehensible is boring. It’s not impossible, it’s…
Can He Outdo Himself?
Share one of the best gifts you’ve ever received. My s/o is not short of terrible tales of his ex. One story basically ruined Valentines Day, also had the holiday in wondering for me. Out of respect, I won’t divulge details, but I will offer you a glimmer of hope. February 2024, we decided to…
High and Absolving
My life is good. I’m not explaining , separating, stepping down, monologging, or sympathizing with mind created drama. That’s what this world is. I agree if the point has been made and it’s clear, beyond that is an obvious cry for help. The state of the world is not determined by who’s in office. If…
Triggered
While I don’t like choosing sides, I also don’t condone nonsense. No matter anyone’s stance, my everyday purchased or used items should not come at the cost of someone else’s life. I was at a point to basically milling my own flour, when my significant other brought up a very valid point. “If these industries…
Showcasing Contentment
If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say? On the billboard, I was show a picture of a stack of money, and under it I would say, “it’s not that serious.” Many people would get offended, others probably would be confused. It’s not for them, or maybe it is. For anyone who understands,…
Say Less
What are your biggest challenges? It’s encouraging to stand your ground, but sometimes silence is the best method. One of my biggest challenges is reacting. While I have gotten better, I feel if it keeps happening, it is obviously something I need to work on. My next challenge, that a lot of women will either…
As of Now
Are you a good judge of character? When I was younger, probably due to abuse, no, I was not. I felt because I had been hurt, how could I cast down others? I paid deeply for that thinking, people continuously abused my kindness and pretended they did nothing wrong. Now, even the slightest off behavior,…
The Heiress JCS 