They openly congratulate you, often. And they watch what you do, hoping to skim any information for themselves. Then, because they can’t reach you…they try launching silent attacks…all arrows aimed at themselves. Things have made a huge turn around in my life, but it doesn’t mean my fan club has disappeared. There are always one…
Category: growth
Love Yourself 🤍
This is what I wanted – subscriptions, ads on my content. This is amazing. I didn’t hurt anyone to get it, including myself. I didn’t lie, or manipulate. It’s been blogged here before, but I slowed down. I stopped. I loved my life. I didn’t force anything. And then – this. It’s beautiful, though it…
An “Ism”
You cannot relay messages now, without people taking them way out of context. It’s easier to spot when anemone really needs help, more than you realize. We find peace in our own ways. Happiness comes to us in different routes. Contentment ushers itself in with different dynamics for everyone. Being easily triggered has two causes…
Autumn Bliss
The fall winds crisp the air at night. Sighing deeply, I nuzzle further into my layers of blankets, intertwined with my body warmed pajamas and cool linens. The feeling of both surges my joy, and I allow myself to relax. I’m not counting the days to anything, I want to breathe. Sometimes, I listen to…
I Choose Me
One man talked so much, it was obvious he was hiding something. The other was way too sure of himself. And the last fellow wanted me but wasn’t willing to put in any effort. Meet me halfway. Um…no? Except, I blocked each and every one of them, and slept like a baby. Choosing myself is…
The Elephant in the Room
This is difficult to blog about but needs to be addressed. I remember the conversation very well. I decided to work on my page for FB monetizing. I told my former boyfriend, and he shared his delight. When I began, I immediately hit a snag. I have always followed all rules for my pages, but…
The Mistake I Won’t Make Again
While the internet has become a vital tool, there are some aspects that I’d rather avoid at all costs – that of connections via my phone or computer. It is already difficult navigating life, dating apps and internet interactions have those who are generally meek acting bolder online because they’re hiding behind a screen. It…
Uplifted
A lot of what I witness now happens for two reasons – people do not change, and they hope you haven’t. My ex said this perfectly last night, and I couldn’t agree more, “people love their bullshit.” When you are unaware, haven’t healed and have no idea what’s going on, everything triggers you. People can…
Sustaining Effort
People don’t like hearing great things take time. Yet, anytime I’ve rushed anything, it simply never worked. While forcing anything also fails you, building over time is way more sustainable. Establishing yourself and remaining consistent are key. I’ve come to realize that no matter how much I say this, it falls on deaf ears. I…
The Heiress JCS 