I have never thought the grass was greener on the other side. Even when my ex was the absolute worst, I remained loyal. When a woman, specially, tells you she is taken…it seems that the immediate reaction is – I can steal her away from him. Last summer, two people i stopped talking to found…
Category: allowance
Lack of Common Sense
What do you complain about the most? It isn’t so common. That? And I also complain about people being cruel. Ok – you have a mental disorder, it doesn’t mean you get to be an ass. The funny part about that too, is, they also…want respect! I feel these two go hand in hand –…
When I Have Time
What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time? Usually, I like to listen to music or watch my favorite shows – sometimes my favorite episodes of certain series. Alongside that…resting, crocheting or doing my nails or hair. I often do my beauty routines so that they last or are easy, so extra time…
Make No Mistake
In January of 2017, I took my eldest and family to an art exhibit for Star Wars. It showcased the costume designs for the majority of the series at the time. On our way home, we intercepted protesters for a woman’s march. One women curtly asked why I didn’t attend. I told her because I…
Arguing With Idiots
I remove myself from situations where people assume a woman of color knows nothing. If you’re a mortician now, your practice counts for nothing hundreds of years ago. One of the major reasons formaldehyde is used when preparing a corpse is because of rigor mortis. This is when the muscles tense up after death, and…
Create Love
Originality is the overture of my life – it will remain so until time starts over. At that point, it will mutate and become malignant growth to continue on. With that being said, I abhor ignorance and manufactured bliss. Is it that hard to be yourself? When something has shaped you, and the output you…
Can We F**kin Not?
You, and you alone…are in charge of your own happiness. I have been at the helm of my happiness since I knew I could, and that was at a very young age. Many have spent their life or the span they were in mine, trying to ruin me. It only made me much weirder. I…
Transmuting Hatred
It has not become harder to create. When I started in 2012, it was difficult. There was an array of challenges I faced. Here I am, 12 years later, and I haven’t stopped. I will continue to create, post and uplift others. People who constantly report what I post are threatened, otherwise they wouldn’t do…
This Matters
This matters because of the road I chose to walk. This matters because it changes the precedent and involves self love, self- development and respect. This matters because my soul is still intact and I stood my ground. Some of you may have read here on my blog site that I had a lot going…
Weekly Reading July 18th – July 24th 2024 – Allowance is Magic
The moon is close to full, at 91% illumination. It’s gracefully sitting in Sagittarius – beautiful, playful energy. As a fire sign, they are less aggressive than Leo and Aries. They are wanderlusts, and will always be that way. The thing to do the most during this time is to wander out into nature, take…
