Dodged That Bullet!

I tried to play match maker and it didn’t work!

I won’t reveal who or why, but I found the two would not make a good pair. As one is very sweet, and kind. And the other just wanted to get their next fix!

Assuming this person admired my relationship, I hoped to match them with a friend of mine. I’m actually really glad it didn’t work, I’d have to explain myself.

They didn’t notice the other, and didn’t bother trying! It’s not my choice or my life. Unfortunately, other red flags became present so I’ll probably be laying low (or blocking them altogether!)

In recent years, I research things people do and say, oftentimes in psychology publications to get a feel of what I witness, and to break the behavior down. Unfortunately, I have been right each and every time.

The good news is, I’m able to determine and make quicker decisions, instead of ignoring poor behavior and lack of propriety (and regretting that down the road!) Trusting my instincts is crucial, and always will be. I do not find myself alone, I’ve just had my fill.

Why was I playing match maker? This person complimented my relationship, and I hoped the idea would stick. Instead, (as previously mentioned) more red flags came about!

The initial, and major one was this statement, “well, you have me and your s/o.”

I DON’T KNOW THEM THAT WELL! Very cringe, as some would say, weird and eye opening. People will say anything to get their way!

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